Good looking people are usually more confident. Let’s say – those who think they are beautiful are more at ease than those who are not much elated by their appearance. But the later ones must rethink.
My experience has taught me that a lot of people have illusion about their looks including myself. The idea of beauty differs with each person. Some people think themselves beautiful even though many others do not think the same about them. And there are some who doubt honest compliments about their beauty. And there are very few who take it as a non-issue. And in many ways it’s relieving to be the former kind and just believe that you are charming.
A smiling face is a pretty face, likewise, a happy face is a beautiful face moreover a humble face is an appealing face. Who can deny it? But still if we talk about the facial feature alone, how can we ever make out how we really look? Is it possible to collect any authentic account regarding the look? Even if that is made somehow, doesn’t it need very quick updates? Go on to do this but just to discover that beauty is one of the most controversial and unreliable issues.
Many in my circle think that fair skin is a boon and they easily empty their pockets while it comes to buying ‘fair and lovely’. Of course their anxiety is that they want farer skin, which is an absolute victory of none but the very stupid cosmetic commercials or the cosmetic giants.
Many fail to realize that complexion is not always an issue. Why don’t we in out every day life come across hundreds of people who despite their non- fair complexion are beautiful. Some due to their twinkling eyes, some because of their cute smile, some owe it to their soft skin; and some with the best combination of all such features, all of those beauty-seekers look charming in one or the other way with their own rather dark complexion. And there are fair group of people with similarly attractive features. Comparing one another and rating them in terms of looks is not only impractical but absurd as well.
The stars from the glamorous world look commonly appealing which might hint that rating people in terms of beauty is not so hard or unreasonable. But isn’t it only because of the created image that the likes of Anjelina Jolie or Ashwarya Rai spoil the rooms of many young lads while they appear in big posters (and don’t forget the special effects)? Without which who knows if they would be able to influence even their locals. The face that appeals to me might repulse you and there’s where all the fuzziness lies.
While I was in Tri Chandra College during my graduate level a friend of mine started liking the big eyes of one guy with whom she recently tied the knot. She always found him and especially his eyes very attractive for the reason we, her friends, never understood. We had named him pumpkin due to his dull feature. In addition, he was nearly an inch shorter than her.
So while talking about beauty the fever of love is what gives you the most wonderful eyes. No matter whoever laughs at your choice but you’ll be spending time with the most attractive person on earth until you two marry one day and both of you suddenly awake, face to each other, and politely admit “ Yes love is so blind!” However, with time, you’ll begin to realize that there’s nothing like beauty and ugliness in one’s face. That totally depends on whether the person is favorable to you or not.
– Anjali Subedi
